If you see someone and you think, “Man, that guy should never, ever wear a bow tie.”…………That guy will be thinking, “I need a new bow tie.” He already has several. He will get more. This is an instinct for social death. You can see a similar thing with dash cams. A person will commit to a dumb move, stop just in time…then go ahead and crash. They cannot help themselves. It is also why we buy art supplies, admire famous artists and become artists ourselves, results may vary.